Archive for the ‘Friends’ Category

So sad…

Wednesday, December 17th, 2008

I just found out that a dear friend of mine died this weekend. I met him through my friend Jason over 8 years ago, when he was only 15.

His name, Todd Wallace AKA Todd Homme.

He grew up in Sac, went to Kennedy and grew up around his friends, Jason, Derek, and Tre. All four of them, gay as all heck, and flaming together.

I’m sad because I knew Todd, and I hung out with him a number of times. Even had him stay over a few times. He had an amazing personality, awesome talent, and was just an all around great guy.

He was recently on the Lifetime series Blush. He made it to the finals, but finished in 2nd place. It came to the end of the finale show and I saw a screen saying “Rest In Peace: Todd Wallace”. I thought, surely not as I’d just talked to him a few weeks ago to congratulate his work on the show and to say hi from back in his old days. I also passed along my friend Jason’s number, and he and Jason caught up.

Apparently he and his boyfriend went to bed for a nap, and he didn’t wake up. According to his mother…”I went to the medical examiner early today, and they took tissue samples from his organs and the doctor said they couldn’t find anything wrong with him,” said Amster. “No drugs, alcohol or pills.” Despite no prior heart condition, the examiners took tissue from the lining of his heart for testing after theorizing it could be related to his heart muscle, she said.

From this article.

He was truly an amazing guy. I know I’ll miss him and many others will as well.

Some old photos of him at my place…


Todd and Jason


Todd and Some other guy


Todd Sleeping on the Couch


Todd at the Computer with Jason

Important regarding HIV, this just came to my attention

Thursday, November 13th, 2008

Apparently there is a treatment after being exposed to HIV. It’s been in use since 1996, but hasn’t been widely mentioned to people, and is mostly in use by health care workers.

It’s a treatment called PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxis). Basically, if a person thinks they’ve been exposed to HIV, they immediately tell their doctor and ask to be put on PEP. They are given very high doses of anti-HIV drugs immediately, preferably within 24 to 48 hours of exposure. This treatment has a very high success rate of completely getting rid of the HIV virus before it has a chance to get hold in a person’s system.

The thought is that it hasn’t been widely mentioned because it’s thought that groups would start to be more lax about their exposure, if they think that they have the equivalent of a “morning after” pill for HIV.

I have friends who are positive and would hate to think that they didn’t have access to all the information available which could potentially prevent even one infection. As such, I felt the need to post this along with the links below so that those interested can get the information they want/need.

PEP Fact Sheet

PEP Questions