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A fun weekend, full of blah!

Sunday, April 26th, 2009

Ok, so things went pretty well this weekend. I’m trying to update this thing more frequently even when things are going good, so that it can actually consist of stuff that’s interesting and not just me bitching during the infrequent pissy times that I have.

Anyway, on to the important stuff. I had an awesome time yesterday hanging out with Vic and Reuben and Vic’s mom, although it was unfortunate that Vic’s mom was making some comments and doing some stuff to make him uncomfortable. It’s her way of dealing with Vic coming out, but nonetheless, there are better ways to do it that wouldn’t end up in your son’s progress being set back.

On the crappier side, I realized when going out to take some trash out that Keagan’s bike got stolen. Which sucks balls. It was a little big for him, but nonetheless worked and would’ve provided a little cash, if sold, to buy a bike which fit better. I’m annoyed because this is the 2nd or 3rd incident we’ve had recently. And we think it’s the skeezy folks that our neighbors bring by. In addition to being loud and annoying and obnoxious, their choice of friends is especially crappy, and tend to be the type of folks that I’d avoid if I saw them on the street. The other 2 incidents were my bike pump being stolen from my bike and Keagan’s mph meter being stolen…mind you, not the wire and the indicator that measures the mph, but just the meter display at the top ( can we say idiots?)

Today was a lil better, it was very relaxed which was nice. A lot to talk about. I walked Keagan to work, came back and proceeded to fix a drawer that’s been broken for a while. After that I brought in my bike, one of the few still remaining in the outside area, and cleaned it all nice and purdy. Surprisingly this is the first spring/summer time when my bike has survived without getting a random flat tire (without having had me ride it at all, figure that one out).

Then I got a call from Keagan asking me to meet him, so we tried 2 or 3 sushi places, all closed. Finally we settled on P.F. Chang’s and had a nice little lunch, after being forgotten about, remembered, having Hot and Sour soup that smelled EXACTLY like the animal area at the State Fair, random but surprisingly accurate. Had good food delivered sans silverware, awesomeness. Then he headed home to meet up with his Big, and I rode my bike to the bike shop to check out their pumps. Nothing struck my fancy so I rode home, but the bike still appears to be in good condition.

I ended up chilling at home, cleaning a little. Then wanted to start re-entering all my old entries that were lost on my old online journal account. Double-click on the icon for my usb drive “Please insert drive” (crap, but it’s inserted!). Take it out, re-insert it “USB device not recognized” (awesomeness). After proceeding through a series of maneuvers, I finally come to terms with the fact that my USB drive has taken a crap. And, lovely as it where, I haven’t backed it up since I first got it and copied everything over from my first drive. Fortunately I still have that, but everything is 3 months old and not updated since. Now I get to try and figure out if I can get my old data back or what.

In the meantime, I’ve been updating my journal with my old entries. Almost at 100…only 600 or so to go…whee!

I think that’s all I’ve got. Nope…We’re moving to one of the front apts. We are currently in a 670 sq ft apt that runs $800 a month. The new apt is roughly 900 and is $975 a month. My only worry is getting the….thicker pieces of furniture inside, namely the sofas, the bookcase, the fridge, and the desk. Whee fun!

Ok, now that’s it. Back to re-entering the old journal and watching old stuff off the DVR.

Annoyed and Amused

Friday, January 16th, 2009

May I just say that I’m annoyed at my boyfriend. Today we got into it because he was outwardly annoyed at the thought that I would suggest that he took these B12 chewable vitamins instead of the B Complex he normally takes. Nevermind that 2 weeks ago we were at a vitamin store and he had a B12 chewable and bought some B Complex and when I suggested that he take the B Complex, said that the chewable would tide him over.

Now apparently the B12 vitamins are useless! This wasn’t entirely over the B12 vitamins. It was more the idea that I put some thought behind going out of my way so that he would have those, since I thought they would work, and that they would be convenient in the event that he forgot to take his B Complex, and he didn’t show the slightest appreciation. I don’t expect flagellation, but a modicum of appreciation, maybe not saying that they’re completely useless and you don’t like them, in front of me.

Maybe it’s too much, but it’s frustrating because it’s not the first time. I do thoughtful things all the time and I get an “awww…thanks!” from him, and then 5 to 10 minutes later, it’s forgotten and he’s bitching about something. It’s gotten to the point where now I almost dread doing anything thoughtful because I know the appreciation will be short lived and not likely to survive a few moments.

It’s even more frustrating that this happened and then he texted me with “Ok, fuck you too. Whatever. I cant wait until i make enough to move out.” After I turned off my phone because I wasn’t in the mood, after he’d hung up on me previously. It’s annoying! All I’m trying to do is be thoughtful, and…it’s just frustrating because I know I’m pretty fucking thoughtful. I pick up on little hints, little ideas and then run with them.

He likes the Dropkick Murphy’s, I looked around for tickets on the floor, since he’s never been to a concert. I could only find balcony, I almost bought some on the floor for $60 bucks each, but then found some on the floor, after someone must’ve returned theirs. My plan is to buy their record, which I did, and put the tickets inside or somehow conceal them, and have him play the record. The record will be his gift for Valentine’s Day. I plan on renting a car, so we can go to see them play in San Francisco. But now my only thought is of the anticipation of the short lived appreciation. Or…something happening in the meantime, which will make it unlikely we’ll go. It’s frustrating as fuck!

Anyway, enough of that, I’m off to home soon. I’ve been avoiding work and working on putting together my journal from past entries on LiveJournal, a JournalSpace backup, MySpace, and Facebook. Fun!

The stupid thing, MySpace has a blogging tool, but no way to back it up, and there is no way to import it from here. Even stupider? Some people have JournalSpace backups, and as far as I can tell, there is no way to import them in here, at least no option on the Import screen.

WTF is up with that? You recreate JournalSpace and then turn around and don’t offer the people who have backups to restore from them…uh…DUHHHHH! Seriously…

Anyway, I’m off to home, hopefully the tickets have arrived. Love peace and hair grease.

17 questions about your No. 1

Wednesday, June 28th, 2006

(not really applicable for JS, but I figured I’d add it nonetheless)

1)What’s their name?
Keagan

2) Do you trust him/her?
With my life

3) Where did you meet?
MySpace

5) Is this person one of your best friends?
More than that

6) Where does this person live?
BFE

7) Is this person older than you?
Nope

8) When is the last time you saw them?
A lil over a week

9) When is the last time you talked to this person?
This morning

10) Are you related to this person?
No - but maybe one day.

11) Would you do anything for this person?
Yes, no question.

12) What is this person’s favorite thing to do?
Be a lil tweaky guy and say random things and continue to amaze me.

13) Are you their b/f OR g/f OR best friend
B/F

14) Do you have nicknames for each other?
Key, Polly Pocket, Squishy, lol

15) Do u have pics of this person on ur myspace?
On his profile, but maybe some soon

16) How many times do you talk to this person in a week?
A lot

17) Do you think this person will repost this?
He did…and now I am…

Now repost this as “17 questions about the 1ST person on your top eight”

First Post (blogger.com)

Wednesday, September 18th, 2002

Hey there, I’m trying this site out to see how it goes and eventually I’ll probably link to this site from my own, depending on how I think it looks and all. Let’s see, the basics, my name is Paul, I’m 27, I work for the State of California, I live in Sacramento. I’m gay, hopefully only openminded or soon to be openminded people will be reading this. If you’re not, feel free to go to disney.com, home of the ultra conservatives. I myself am moderate, in case you cared, I don’t agree with everything the democrats or republicans say, so I rarely vote for either of their candidates in any election, especially if given any alternate choice. But I digress….LOOK, here’s my new car, well technically it’s our car, since it’s in my boyfriend’s (bf) name, but I make the payments and the insurance payments.

I’m currently looking into fixing it up, both on the exterior, as well as making it faster, unfortunately the performance parts for this car are few and far between.

Anyways, that’s enough for my first post, hope whoever comes along eventually to read this, enjoys it. PAUL